assurance is through actions, not words

because

words without actions = bullshit

if your partner isn't even worth your efforts for reassuring him/her about the relationship, then it means you don't deserve that person. you just don't love the person deep enough.

maybe then, its time for you to let go of this relationship and free your partner from the pain and hurt that you are causing because of your indifference.

if your partner just isn't as important as your work, your friends, or your leisure.. this person isn't the person for you cos the love isn't there.

when there's love, there's obsession. the need to see each other all the time, the need for connection all the time..

but if.. such a need doesn't exist (e.g. not meeting is fine..no contact is fine..), then this relationship won't last.

its a guarantee that it will end cos a relationship requires both parties' efforts.

with one party, its bound to end, sooner or later.

heed my warning people.

if you enjoy being loved, then learn to love too. always treat others the way you want to be treated.

remember that.