You took my heart and lifted it high

Then you let it fall...hard...

And watch it broke into million pieces...

For me to pick up and mend it

But...

It can never be perfect again

Coz there’s a deep scar

Left by you

50 Things Women Wish Men Knew

There are some universal truths that women believe all men should—but don't—understand. Lucky for you, we convinced some girls to open up and tell us what they aren't. Check out this list for a better idea of what's going through her mind.

http://www.menshealth.com/mhlists/what_women_want_from_men/

What She Wishes You Knew #1

Saying "I love you" immediately before, during, or following sex doesn't count.

Comments from me: yes

What She Wishes You Knew #2

Real men drive stick shift.

Comments from me: hmmmmm

What She Wishes You Knew #3

I will leave if you lie.

Comments from me: yes

What She Wishes You Knew #4

You are cute in raglan-sleeved T-shirts (two-toned baseball undershirts).

Comments from me: ..

What She Wishes You Knew #5

I'm convinced I'm pregnant and obsess about it for a minimum of 24 to 48 hours before my period, even when I have no rational reason to think so.

Comments from me: definitely

What She Wishes You Knew #6

I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear.

Comments from me: of cos.. hee.

What She Wishes You Knew #7

"Fine" is never an appropriate response when I ask you how I look.

Comments from me: yea

What She Wishes You Knew #8

Most of the time when I fantasize, it's about you.

Comments from me: or another woman. lol

What She Wishes You Knew #9

I'm terrified of becoming my mother, even though I admire her.

Comments from me: ..

What She Wishes You Knew #10

I get turned on simply seeing that I have an e-mail from you.

Comments from me: *shy*

What She Wishes You Knew #11

I expect you to call me.

Comments from me: yea.. and get upset when you don't.

What She Wishes You Knew #12

Only rock stars are allowed to wear leather pants.

Comments from me: yes

What She Wishes You Knew #13

I'm scared of losing my independence.

Comments from me: kinda

What She Wishes You Knew #14

I'm more forgiving of you than I really should be.

Comments from me: yes.

What She Wishes You Knew #15

Oral sex is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free card. Manolo Blahnik shoes also do the trick.

Comments from me: ..

What She Wishes You Knew #16

You did something bad. I seem cool with it. I'm not. (See directly above.)

Comments from me: yes.

What She Wishes You Knew #17

If I'm not having sex with you, I'm . . . a.) . . . having a fat day. b.) . . . not feeling "connected" to you. c.) . . . blackmailing you to get something I want.

Comments from me: first two.. yes.. third? i never tried. does it work? =X

What She Wishes You Knew #18

Shoes determine whether you're fashionable or not.

Comments from me: and hair.

What She Wishes You Knew #19

I own a Debbie Gibson CD, and I'm not afraid to use it.

Comments from me: i don't.

What She Wishes You Knew #20

When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing.

Comments from me: ..

What She Wishes You Knew #21

A man I love plans the occasional fancy-schmancy dress-up date and impromptu weekend getaways, and he buys my favorite candy in advance when we're just going to the movies.

Comments from me: yes. definitely yes.

What She Wishes You Knew #22

You look hot in hooded clothing items.

Comments from me: err..

What She Wishes You Knew #23

You should never tell me what to do.

Comments from me: hmmmmm..

What She Wishes You Knew #24

If I slept over, you owe me breakfast.

Comments from me: yes. should never let me go hungry.

What She Wishes You Knew #25

My breasts love much licking and sucking.

Comments from me: not too hard though.. hurts.

What She Wishes You Knew #26

If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.

Comments from me: unless i am really too busy.

What She Wishes You Knew #27

I'm very impressed when you ask for my advice.

Comments from me: yes, that shows u are smart enough to seek help when needed.

What She Wishes You Knew #28

I'm unimpressed with a man who doesn't take the lead.

Comments from me: kinda

What She Wishes You Knew #29

When in doubt, go with the shirt that matches your eye color.

Comments from me: ..

What She Wishes You Knew #30

I want to be Madonna.

Comments from me: ..

What She Wishes You Knew #31

Women get urinary-tract infections easily, so watch (and wash) your fingers.

Comments from me: yes, please take notice of hygiene.

What She Wishes You Knew #32

I'm in heaven when you hold my hand.

Comments from me: *smiles* its sweet. =)

What She Wishes You Knew #33

You're sexy when you're: shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, eating a peach, holding a baby.

Comments from me: you do.

What She Wishes You Knew #34

I need to hear how you feel about me. Often. Tell me now.

Comments from me: yes. we need to hear the words. not jus, "you know it.. duh"

What She Wishes You Knew #35

Surprises, especially gifts for moi = more loving.

Comments from me: yes, girls love surprises.

What She Wishes You Knew #36
I want to be the best thing that ever happened to you—and for you to recognize this.

Comments from me: yea. we won't know if you don't say.

What She Wishes You Knew #37

If I'm not feeling loved, I will start looking . . .

Comments from me: yup

What She Wishes You Knew #38

Discussion of ex-gf's and ex-bf's should be avoided at all times.

Comments from me: i guess the word "comparison" is more appropriate.

What She Wishes You Knew #39

I like it when you tell me what you're thinking, even if you don't know yourself.

Comments from me: yea. so that i feel that i am a part of you.

What She Wishes You Knew #40

Celebrating our anniversary, even if it's only been a few months, earns major bonus points.

Comments from me: and when you stopped doing that, it shows that u don't love as much anymore.

What She Wishes You Knew #41

I love it when you're sweaty.

Comments from me: err..

What She Wishes You Knew #42

It's best to consult your gal pals for gift ideas.

Comments from me: yea. girls that i approve of.

What She Wishes You Knew #43

A lady should always be greeted with kisses.

Comments from me: or hugs.

What She Wishes You Knew #44

I like porn.

Comments from me: unless the guy is too ugly or the girl moans like she is in pain. and oh, when its censored at the xxx areas. whats the point of having porn if its mosaic-ed?

What She Wishes You Knew #45

I love holding your bum in the palms of my hands.

Comments from me: yes, i really love it. hee

What She Wishes You Knew #46

Even nice girls like hushed dirty talk in public.

Comments from me: yes. love it.

What She Wishes You Knew #47

It's cheating as soon as you're doing something with her that you wouldn't want me to see, hear, read . . .

Comments from me: yes. please note.

What She Wishes You Knew #48

For the record: I'd rather you break up with me than cheat.

Comments from me: another important point.

What She Wishes You Knew #49

I remember everything about our relationship.

Comments from me: yea. even when you don't.

What She Wishes You Knew #50

You should know all this and more without my telling you.

Comments from me: yea. but you usually don't.


i like this list.. what most girls feel. guys, read it and remember.

50 Things Men Wish Women Knew

Listen up ladies: We know you're keeping secrets from us. And even though you think you've got men all figured out, we're hiding a few things ourselves. But we're kind enough to compile this list of 50 universal guy truths that all women should understand. Read on and learn what your man is really thinking.

http://www.menshealth.com/mhlists/things_men_want_from_women/

What He Wishes You Knew #1

Express yourself. It makes us proud, even if someone thinks you're wrong.

Comments from me: is that even true? What if the someone is you (the guy)?

What He Wishes You Knew #2

You look hot in running shoes and shorts. And that top thingy with the stripes.

Comments from me: running shoes.... hmmm.. really? *brows*

What He Wishes You Knew #3

Bare, tan shoulders are underrated.

Comments from me: i guess cleavage is better.

What He Wishes You Knew #4

If you think I'm speeding now, you should see me drive when you're not in the car.

Comments from me: hah. that i agree. and girls may say the same thing to the guy.

What He Wishes You Knew #5

If you're truly interested in us, don't play hard to get.

Comments from me: if we don't play hard, you guys wont treasure us.

What He Wishes You Knew #6

Shopping is a chore, not an activity.

Comments from me: well..that's why girls nowadays turn to online shopping!

What He Wishes You Knew #7

When I screw up, go ahead and tell me—once.

Comments from me: we would like to tell you once, if you listen.

What He Wishes You Knew #8

No question need ever be asked through a closed bathroom door if I'm inside. I love you less with each syllable you utter.

Comments from me: ..

What He Wishes You Knew #9

I'm hot for you, not your sister or your friend or your coworker.

Comments from me: note taken

What He Wishes You Knew #10

My guy friends. Not only are they not negotiable, they're your best sign that I'm not a whack job.

Comments from me: what if they are the reason why none of your rs worked? guy friends are fine. but what kind?

What He Wishes You Knew #11

Don't be afraid to ditch the makeup. Natural is sexier.

Comments from me: is it?

What He Wishes You Knew #12

Leave the eyebrows alone. Plucked ain't pretty.

Comments from me: tat's not gonna happen. plucking of eyebrows is a must unless u have naturally nice ones.

What He Wishes You Knew #13

You can have sex with us any time you want. Seriously.

Comments from me: ooo.. tat's an open secret. =P

What He Wishes You Knew #14

When the game is on, we will pay attention to you if you're nice about it. Bark, and we shut down.

Comments from me: understandable.

What He Wishes You Knew #15

I don't ask for directions because I'm just happy to be driving. Anywhere.

Comments from me: you sure it ain't cos of ego?

What He Wishes You Knew #16

Masturbation is merely practice for the big game. Encourage it.

Comments from me: of cos.

What He Wishes You Knew #17

We crave hugs and hand-holding too. And no, it doesn't always have to lead to sex.

Comments from me: tat's sweet to noe.

What He Wishes You Knew #18

But you can have sex with us any time you want. Did we mention that?

Comments from me: .......... guys........

What He Wishes You Knew #19

There's no better sound in the world than you, having an orgasm.

Comments from me: note taken. but do all girls moan when having orgasm?

What He Wishes You Knew #20

Though the exhaust note of a Porsche Boxster is pretty damn fine, too.

Comments from me: ..

What He Wishes You Knew #21

I just may lie to make you feel good. Don't be angry about this. You really weren't looking for the truth anyway.

Comments from me: that ain't true, sometimes.

What He Wishes You Knew #22

When you get angry over some stupid little pointless thing, I question your intelligence.

Comments from me: hmmmmm.. don't guys do the same?

What He Wishes You Knew #23

You're really bad at faking it.

Comments from me: at least we bother to fake it so it wont hurt your ego.

What He Wishes You Knew #24

If I offer my help while you're getting ready, it means you're late.

Comments from me: okay. that's very true.

What He Wishes You Knew #25

Never ask me to pick out your outfit. (See above.) I will invariably get it wrong and make us even more late.

Comments from me: get it wrong? don't think so. we ask cos we trust your taste.

What He Wishes You Knew #26

Giving me two or three choices, however, can be fun. Assuming you will change outfits in front of me. Slowly.

Comments from me: kinky. i like it.

What He Wishes You Knew #27

Err on the side of hot; I love to show you off.

Comments from me: but don't like it when other guys looked?

What He Wishes You Knew #28

Unless we're meeting my parents.

Comments from me: obviously.

What He Wishes You Knew #29

When you call us at work "just to chat," we're not really listening; we're checking our e-mail.

Comments from me: note taken.

What He Wishes You Knew #30

Spring means baseball and skirts. Doesn't need to be a mini-skirt; it's been a long winter.

Comments from me: ..

What He Wishes You Knew #31

Chicks who drink beer are hot. Better yet: chicks who drink beer and watch the game. Better still: chicks who buy us a beer during the game.

Comments from me: note taken.

What He Wishes You Knew #32

We don't mind being told we look good. Just don't call it a "cute outfit."

Comments from me: LOL

What He Wishes You Knew #33

We love ponytails.

Comments from me: really? why?

What He Wishes You Knew #34

Being good in bed means a) enthusiasm; b) a sense of humor; and sometimes c) patience.

Comments from me: of cos!

What He Wishes You Knew #35

The first time? We're as nervous as you are.

Comments from me: i'm sure. =)

What He Wishes You Knew #36

A random unexpected grope is always welcome, even in public. Especially in public.

Comments from me: *cheeky smile*

What He Wishes You Knew #37

Make us laugh and we'll want to hang around.

Comments from me: same for us

What He Wishes You Knew #38

Yes, I laugh really loud around the guys. And I always will, so deal.

Comments from me: yea, so do i. =X

What He Wishes You Knew #39

Sure, men stereotypically like to solve a woman's problems. But a woman who solves her own while we watch? Instant erection.

Comments from me: hmmmm..

What He Wishes You Knew #40

You can pick the movie, but have a reason.

Comments from me: reason? cos we like it.

What He Wishes You Knew #41

Do not expect to have a conversation via text message unless you use the words "naked" and "waiting."

Comments from me: ..

What He Wishes You Knew #42

Sometimes we wonder why any woman would want to be with us, much less someone as amazing as you. So, thanks.

Comments from me: *melts* tell us in the face and we might just stay for life.

What He Wishes You Knew #43

Anytime you cook for us, we're happy.

Comments from me: same for girls

What He Wishes You Knew #44

If you can hit a golf ball 150 yards, we just might fall in love.

Comments from me: ..

What He Wishes You Knew #45

No, I don't remember what he said next. Or she. Or anybody, for that matter. I'm a guy, not a tape recorder.

Comments from me: ..

What He Wishes You Knew #46

We love you even more because you know we need to go out with the guys once in a while.

Comments from me: same for girls

What He Wishes You Knew #47

And we love it when you hang with us guys, too.

Comments from me: u sure??

What He Wishes You Knew #48

We have a keen sense of imminent danger. It sounds like, "Do you think she's pretty?"

Comments from me: why so? sometimes, we just want an honest opinion.

What He Wishes You Knew #49

Don't rely on us for keeping you up on the news.

Comments from me: note taken

What He Wishes You Knew #50

Never say, "I know you better than you know yourself." Nobody does.

Comments from me: ..



interesting article i found online. though some are jus plain bullshit. lol..

so guys.. are all these true??

in any case, i will be posting the female's point of view soon. stay tuned. =)

was browsing through my hotmail, searching for some cheer up emails to cheer up a friend of mine when i stumble upon this old email that i had received from a dear friend:





it made me smile and warmed my heart.. memories..

sometimes, there's no need for exaggerating ways to make a person's day..

a simple thank you note or a hug can do the trick jus fine, if not better..


friends.. you may have a lot..

but those who really are true are usually less than a handful..

and trust me, its definitely better to 1-2 true friends than a bunch of fake friends cos:

False friendship, like the ivy, decays and ruins the walls it embraces; but true friendship gives new life and animation to the object it supports.

for me, i am blessed.. i always have these few true friends with me when i am in need..

they just appear whenever i am down..

just 2 nights back, a friend called me and i tot sth happened to the friend but nope, this friend called because,

"i just felt that i should call you, i think you need this call.."

and nope, this friend never read my blog or anything (and my blog is always random).. just called cos had the feeling that i could use a call..

sweet =)

to my friends who have been with me through period of hard times, i wanna say thank you for being there in any way you could.

i appreciate it. =)

to the rest,

tell your loved ones/friends if you appreciate them..today..

don't wait. cos you never know what comes tomorrow. =)

an interesting conversation with my sis..

decided to share with you guys..

*[ åGиÊs ]* says (1:32 AM):
a fren once ask me this b4...

if god (whoever ur god is) arrange ur mr perfect to only come by 10yrs ltr, will u wait? noeing that once u be wif this perfect person, u'll be happy for e rest of ur life...

yes? keep ur ans wif u...

coz u nvr noe when ur perfect person will appear.. but b4 u can meet ur perfect person, u hava give up e imperfect ones...noeing that he isnt e one...

u hava give up....n u hava be able to keep urself in e light to be able to let e perfect person find u...

if u lose urself, how can this perfect person locate u?


*[ åGиÊs ]* says (1:41 AM):
e perfect person will grow tog wif u...n learn tog wif u...pull u up when u need to, n let u pull him up when he needs to...

so keep urself in light... let him locate u...

get rid of e unnecessary ppl, but keep e lesson learned in each r/s wif u..so that when u finally meet e perfect one, u would hv grown n learned enuff for him to fall for u...

so my friends,

when you feel like giving up, don't.

don't lose yourself.. keep yourself in the light and let the one locate you..

phy wrote to me this, a quote from Marilyn Monroe:

"I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure....
I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle.
But if you can’t handle me at my worst,
then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best."

very true.

at the end of the day, one needs to learn to love him/herself more..

who did it?

i didn't.

assurance is through actions, not words

because

words without actions = bullshit

if your partner isn't even worth your efforts for reassuring him/her about the relationship, then it means you don't deserve that person. you just don't love the person deep enough.

maybe then, its time for you to let go of this relationship and free your partner from the pain and hurt that you are causing because of your indifference.

if your partner just isn't as important as your work, your friends, or your leisure.. this person isn't the person for you cos the love isn't there.

when there's love, there's obsession. the need to see each other all the time, the need for connection all the time..

but if.. such a need doesn't exist (e.g. not meeting is fine..no contact is fine..), then this relationship won't last.

its a guarantee that it will end cos a relationship requires both parties' efforts.

with one party, its bound to end, sooner or later.

heed my warning people.

if you enjoy being loved, then learn to love too. always treat others the way you want to be treated.

remember that.