❣ who, what, when, where, why ❣

She asked him, "how many have you loved?"

His reply? "5."

She continued, "can you tell me their names?"

He smiled and answered, "They are..Who, What, When, Where and Why."

玩你的人与爱你的人

你身边那位，是玩你，还是爱你？

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玩你的人：半夜會找你打電話聊天到很晚。
愛你的人：會告訴你不要聊那麼晚。

玩你的人：他會找你出去玩，叫你放棄正事。
愛你的人：他會催你好好工作，踏踏實實。

 
玩你的人：在你生病時，會講好話關心你。
愛你的人：在你生病時，他會關心到你煩，並強迫你去看醫生。 

玩你的人：他會盡量說好話來討好你，你也會覺得很開心。
愛你的人：他所說的話，都是關心你的，但是通常像是在命令。 

玩你的人：他什麼事情都會配合你，只要你開心。
愛你的人：他會幫你辨別是非，但是你會感覺他管的太多。 

玩你的人：他說他要給你最大的快樂。
愛你的人：他只能給你保證，你跟他在一起，他是最快樂的。 

玩你的人：他在意你的生活細節，即使你做錯了什麼，他也不會指出來。 

愛你的人：他在意你的一舉一動，告訴你什麼地方錯了，什麼地方該如何做，該如何與別人交往。 

玩你的人：他不會在意你去做什麼，與什麼人交往。
愛你的人：他很在意你去做什麼，與什麼人交往。他還會告戒你不要與什麼人交往。

玩你的人：他只想要現在。  

愛你的人：他已經預見未來，該怎麼自我努力，好好給你幸福。 

玩你的人：他會說“我喜歡你！”
愛你的人：他會說“我愛你。

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如果，你愛過或者被愛過，那麼，你會感到這些話千真萬確。

Melancholy

Sometimes, you think back your past and wonder, if you had done it differently, would the ending be the same? If the same situation happens now, will you handle it differently?

Alot of times, we handle things the way we thought was best at the moment and this thought often depends on our maturity and age. Despite how some would argue age does not affect one's maturity, we have to admit, you only grow wiser as you age; you gain more experience as the years go by.

As such, you will handle things in a different way at different phases of your life. Things that you would had done in the past may not be the best solution now.

However, despite dealing it differently, the result may be the same. Sounds irony? That's life. This often relates to relationships among humans. I'm not only talking about boy-girl relationships, I'm also referring to friendship and more. Why so? That's because characters cannot be changed. That is what makes you different from others. There are people whom you will never be good friends with, despite how hard you try. There's also people whom you will click at first meetup. That's compatibility. There's no right or wrong, worthy or not. It's purely compatibility. Some people are never met to click.

That's the irony I'm referring to. You may have handled it differently, but the ending will be the same. People who are not compatible can never be together, be it friends or lovers. Of cos, one is more stringent when it comes to lovers, which is why some people can only be friends, not lovers. Pity but not everyone is your foe, and not everyone is your friend.

So there's no need to be too upset over loss of friendship or relationships, Co's That's life. You get upset; that's understandable, but not to the extend of wallowing. The biggest challenge in life is not to hang on, but to let go. When you have learnt to let go, you will be a happier person.  :)

Missing you

Missing someone is your heart's way of reminding you that you love them.

If you do, let them know. There may not always be a tomorrow. Treasure the present.