God's will?

It's funny how God show you his way, how he sets obstacles/paths to let you know that what you are doing is/isn't good for you.

If its good, you realise there's a lot of paths leading you to that goal. If it's not, you will find a lot of obstacles.

For example, you aren't supposed to go somewhere and thus, though you have found ways and means to go, and finally got to go, the place may be closed.

If you are supposed to meet a person, you may have cancelled the date which you walk aimlessly later on and suddenly, you will bump into him/her.

We often do not think much about it but if you do observe, you will realise how amazing such is. Of cos, if you only believe that fate is in your hands, what I have just mentioned is bull shit. But then again, no harm having an open heart right? :)

So is the path you are walking now meant to be?

Missing you

Missing someone is your heart's way of reminding you that you love them.

If you do, let them know. There may not always be a tomorrow. Treasure the present.

To love or be loved?

In a relationship, both should be happy. A wise man once said, to love is miserable, be loved is happiness. How true is that? We always advise our friends to be with the one who loves them, who is "good", the "better person", don't be with the "bad guy", the "arsehole".

Truth is who are we to judge? Love is blind and doesn't matter if the person is good or bad, treats you well, love you more or less. If your heart were to fall for him/her, you will fall. We always took eyes at friends who break the "better person"'s heart and choose to be with the "arsehole" but when such situation happens to us, how sure are we that we will choose the "better person" and not the "arsehole"?

No matter how bad a person is, there must be some good in him/her that attract people and vice versa. Do you follow your heart or mind? Is love emotional or logical? I'm sure you have your answer.

Two people in love, only they themselves see the truest form of each other an know best why they love each other. We can't see doesn't mean they don't exist.

So next time, before you start rolling your eyes, think about it. Are you that logical in love? If yes, are you sure you are in love?