Big 3 & Friends

It's been a life changing year. Or should I say, months? Things changed, for the better and worse. Physically, it's getting worse. Mentally, it's getting better.

As I reach my big 3 this year, I realised it's not as daunting as I expected it to be. I thought I would get all jittery, skeptical and dreadful about it, but I didn't. On the contrary, I am nonchalant (okay, maybe I'm only dreadful about people calling me by a different term, "a....e"). I am happy to tell people about it, nothing to be secretive about. I'm not sure if that is because I don't look like it, or I'm really embracing the fact. Either way, I'm okay with this change. :)

Mentally, I'm seeing things at a different light. I have learnt to take things in it's stride, not being stubborn over alot of things and being able to accept more than I used to. Maybe I have been through enough or rather, seen enough to know better. Maybe, I have learnt that life is too short to dwell on redundant matters. I have better things to focus on: happy stuff such as having friends. :)

I have made alot of new friends in the past year and some, I have labelled them as close friends. Of Co's, I have also realised some friendships were not strong enough against the work of time, but then again, since the friendships become distant over time, its better to end it now than later.

Recently, I bumped into someone whom I had known briefly a year ago and felt that we could click but due to some matters, we sorta lost contact. That accidental meetup was awesome as we cleared the air and realised that both were glad to be friends. I am happy that I went down that night. It was a great night that I would remember for a long time. That's friendship that will not distance due to time. Even if we were to only meet once a year. It's the thought that matters. :)

Someone told me that there will never be friends among colleagues, and I beg to differ. I have found awesome friends through work and some I know, I will always treasure and they will always cherish. Blessed maybe, I am happy now. Work sucks but with awesome friends, I can survive it (mostly).

I expect more changes to come this year, good ones. And with this android app, I believe I'll be able to pen down my journey in life more often.

I love my life. ♡