People always say, "Words mean nothing with no actions to prove them .."

But there's also saying that "Words hurt as much, if not more than, actions.."

Both true to me.

In fact, I believe the second saying is the effect of the first.. Because the first saying, people have the mindset that words can't hurt.. And therefore, become insensitive to what they say.. Underestimate the power of words.. 

No matter how much you try, you get affected by words.. It's the words that affect your mood, your confidence.. 

Words kill.. Look at the numbers of death due to words.. Chinese has this saying, "人言可畏 " 

Words can hurt, it can kill a person, literally at times.. 

Just as words can heal a person.. Boost one's confidence.. 

Don underestimate the power of words my dear..

Use them to heal, not hurt..