how hard is it to find someone who knows u inside out?

someone who can sense you miles away and get your thoughts by a look?

someone who is very ordinary outside but is the soulmate to you inside?

someone who well, look into your eyes and fill you with overwhelming love?

jus that one look and you know he/she is the one.


but how sure are we?

how many times have we thought/assumed that HE/SHE IS THE ONE only to realise down the road he/she isnt?

i always wonder.. how people decide to spend the rest of their lives with the other particular person?

cos of love?

cos of habit?

cos its comfortable?

cos of responsibility?

i'd asked alot of people, those married, those attached, those single, those under 20s, above 20s, late 30s to early 40s.

the answers i gathered are:

trust
comfortable
understand each other
responsible



but no love. no one mentioned love.

has the meaning of marriage changed so drastically through out the decades that love is no longer a deciding factor?

how about the vow that said:

"To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish 'till death do us part."

where has the meaning of it gone?

is it only a script to be spoken only for the sake of it?

have we evolved so much that the most sacred part in life is lost?

the purest of feelings are no longer desired?

have we become so complicated that we cant understand the simplicity of such matters?

what are we then?

i wonder.





i wish, the day i am 80, my hubby still loves me as much as he did when he first fell in love with me.

to hold me hands and be my eyes when i cant see well while i will be his legs when he cant really walk.

i wanna be in love always. not to love but be in love. always.