i always say, "its ok to be stupid; don't prove it".. yet, i keep seeing people proving themselves just that..

esp these days and its the boys again. **

i do not understand why guys are like that.. are they born that way or what?

you are interested in a girl and went to get to know her.

then you will start insisting that you send her home, buy lunch for her, flowers etc, always in situation where she cant jus scream at you for doing such things (e.g. workplace, school etc)..

then one day, you are emo and started accusing her of things..

saying she just like guys to do this to her, to let guys buy things for her etc when right from the start, you are the one insisting on doing such things, knowing very well she has other suitors or that she doesn't want to be in any rs at the moment.

she can't reject you as you never mention you wanna woo her.. you just like treating her well..

or worse, you had mentioned you are interested in her and she had said she's not interested.

so after your tantrum, you calmed down and expect her to be ok too.. and to talk to you again as if nothing has happened.

after a few days, u got emo again and started saying u shall not contact her anymore blah blah blah..

if she doesn't reply, u will go on smsing her or call her to keep talking when you said you will not contact her anymore.. **

the the most childish thing is to accuse someone and then had nothing to prove it..

trying to act cool only to show everyone else how childish you were..

sending "wrong" sms to test the person's reaction..

how lame can one get?! **

proving yourself stupid is enough, yet i've seen people proving themselves stupider than they originally were!!

i believe this happened to alot of people.. esp on girls..

those boys just expect you to fall head over heels for them just cos they said they were interested in you and they were not bad looking (oh, some not good looking like to do that too!)..

when they realise you really ain't interested in them, they start accusing you, ruining your reputation to show they were the one who did not want to accept you and not the other way round..

saying words like, "i can get any girl i want" or "i say what i want to say, not what you want to hear" or, "i am not blowing my top over you, its not worth it.." **

anyway, the 2nd line is darn stupid.. they can say what they wanna say, yet they expect you to say things they wanna hear??

come on.. how childish can one get? its not the 17-18yr old guys who like to do such things, but usually those who are like mid 20s to late 20s who loveeee to do such stupid things..

as if they being interested in you is the most important thing on Earth, you shouldn't worry about other things such as your bills, your job, your living expenses but them!

can't stand it.

is it the ego acting? or too much testerone makes a guy stupid? **

i am not saying that girls won't do that (as i have seen some very ridiculous doing too) but there are less. and usually when they do that, they only manage to make themselves look cheap.

anyway, this is only one type of things guys love to do to prove themselves stupid.

another kind will be getting you to feel for them by telling you they are interested in you and then try to play hard to get.

then when you give up, they will come running to you again.

but you have already given up and chose another! **

so what do they do?

they took on the role of victim and so, you are the bad guy again, for hurting this poor chap who is soooooo interested in you all these while (which is bullshit of cos!).. **

these days, i have seeen so much of such things that i am turned off..

this 2nd type of guy like to claim they are busy but always have time for their friends..

they have time to shit (literally shittting!!) but no time to sms..

got time to drink themselves drunk, but no time to reply your sms/msn..

they happy, they talk alot to you, saying sweet things..

not happy, they give one word answer or worse, no reply at all.. **

then you get fed up and stop having hopes.

they sensed that they are losing you again, and start being Mr. Sweet.. no more Mr. Cool..

they thought by showing they have choices will make the girls wanna hold them even tighter, but they always forget that the girls have choices too!

and usually far more than than the guy and much better too!

always no time to settle things, always like to play mind games..

what is the world becoming to?

i thought it should be girls who like to play mind games, hinting here and there?

when did guys start having so much estrogen?

will they start growing breasts too? **

if you were to confront them, they will say they have no time to settle this but will find time soon..

yet, waiting and waiting and waiting and the day never comes..

and then, the whole cycle repeats..

stupid rite?? **

if you are really interested in a person and know very well that its is being reciprocated, then stop being Mr. Cool! Do something!

its childish to act cool when all you have succeeded in doing is proving yourself stupid and losing such a girl that you actually are very interested in..

whose losses?

of cos, its the guy.. duh................................... **

boys boys boys, grow up and be a man!!


and oh, a small note for all of you.. =)

one should learn to let go of the past and embrace the future.. thinking of the past doesnt make things better.

and its the past that makes the present and in turn, create the future..

without mistakes, one cannot learn..

so if this is someone you really like, stop harping on the past mistakes and start making a better future..

What Angela Means

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality. You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people. You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts. You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals. You are deeply philosophical and thoughtful. You tend to analyze every aspect of your life. You are intuitive, brilliant, and quite introverted. You value your time alone. Often times, you are grumpy with other people. You don't appreciate them trying to interfere in your affairs. You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone. You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together. At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together. You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow. You are light hearted and accepting. You don't get worked up easily. Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is.

What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning?

hmmmm... true to a certain extent, except maybe introverted and being best at everything and oh! don't get worked up easily. lol.

happy 21st birthday to my dear friend, kaixin.


i love you. have fun and stay happy. =)

sometimes, love can be nothing, nothing at all.

Your result:

	Two Peas in a Pod
	You're like two peas in a pod. You are not soul mates, but your love and relationship are strong and what you have can be just as blissful. You compliment each other and more importantly learn from each other.

did a test, Is he your soulmate on facebook and this is the result. hee. very very true. *beams*

he really taught me alot through out these 2 years, made me a better person, a healthier and definitely, a happier person.

and i hope i did the same to him! ^^

a rs should be something you get to be happier than you are now, not to make you any sadder than you already are.

i always believe in a rs, there should be more laughters than tears, more happiness than sadness.

yet, i keep seeing friends getting into a rs only to make them worse than before. more stressful, more worries, more tears, more anger, more problems, more of everything except happiness and peace.

if there is more sadness than happiness in the rs you are in, you should start thinking and re-evaluate. is this what you want? is this what you deserve?

d0esn't matter whose fault it is, if a rs isn't making the parties involved happy (more than unhappy), then this rs isn't healthy.

unless of cos, you love unhappiness, you need to be unhappy to survive, this isnt a rs you should be in.

i remember my mum saying this to me, though my life sucks, at least i have a very good bf who makes my life beautiful when its not.

that is very true.

when u meet obstacles at work or school or anywhere, you would want to find your partner to cheer you up. you would want to have a shoulder to lean on, to relax. not to make your day worse than it already is.

there is no such thing as one cannot live without another, cos at the end of the day, everyone is alone. even if you get married, you are alone. one will die eventually. since thats the case, why not make the short life a better time to live in?

why make it so miserable? no one dies cos he/she is single. not for normal (thinking) people.

but i still see friends getting attached all the time, for all the wrong reasons and wrong people.

is this world changing so much that being single is a disgraceful status? is loneliness so specific that only a partner can fill it?

being single isn't wrong, being alone won't kill, but getting into a wrong/unhealthy rs may kill you eventually..........

free these days and did a layout for my best friend's blog.

*please click on image for a larger view. =)

she wanted gothic yet emo, took me awhile to think of something out. lucky deviantart has alot of brushes, beautiful brushes such as Hand Drawn Heart Brushes, . kakii.com brush 3, Text Brushes GSR Letter, Pixie - Fairy Brushes and Postage Photoshop Brushes which i had used in this layout i've done.

quite like the result of this, considering i have no idea how to portray en effect that my best friend had wanted.

really love designing layouts for friends. the outcome is always satsifying. and exercise my brain and my creativity too, since i don't have many chances to do arts now. ^^

*shoulder aches* should take a rest now. lets see whose blog layout should i do for next. *ponders*

someone told me this in msn:

******* says (12:22 AM):
i always like to say...

******* says (12:22 AM):
this world is equal...

******* says (12:22 AM):
this time you are the unlucky one...

******* says (12:22 AM):
next time you will be the lucky one...

******* says (12:22 AM):
or perhaps...

******* says (12:22 AM):
put it this way...

******* says (12:23 AM):
perhaps those unlucky times in your life...

******* says (12:23 AM):
is to balance up your luck and happiness in your life...?


therefore, i am going to be lucky for the rest of my life! =)


*thank you, i shall be lucky and may you be lucky too. =)

happy new year! i hope all of you enjoyed your new year's celebration! =D

for me, i had my countdown at MartiniFirm at MS. Its an unique bar as its of daybed concept, which means instead of tables and chairs, they had tables and beds. yup, beds, real beds with pillows and bolsters and table in the middle of it.


its a very cosy place, not noisy or filled with those youngsters who only know how to shout and fight to gain attention (of cos, its because it has age limit!)..

the 5 of us had the whole bed to ourselves. we chose the big bed which can fit at least 6-8 people at the back (its quieter) and had a package for 4 which included a bottle of Absolut Vodka, 2 jugs of mixers and champagne. You can choose not to have package and order from menu too, they have lots of different martinis available at a reasonable price. =)

just starting. ;-)

so.. we played cards and drank while waiting for countdown. we were told that fireworks could be seen at the bar we were at, but we did not go out, afraid of the confetti. at 12midnight, we had toasts of champagne! what a great way to celebrate new year! ^^

cheers!

later, we decided to go dancing only to find out the exorbitant fee of 40 & 30 bucks for guys and girls repectively to enter the club!!! its ridiculous! =.=

and so, we headed back to MartiniFirm, continuing our drinkings. By then, i was dozing off. it was 3plus in the morning (yea yea, i am old rem? no longer a teenager!).. Gary and 2 friends of joy's came over to look for us.. ordered some snacks as joy was hungry and me? i just wanted to have something to do so that i could keep myself awake.

the best friends.

joy

ys

wen kai, boy's good friend since sec sch..my mum says he is handsome!

my lover boy. =D

sadly, the orders took a long time to come. by then, i had dozed off. woke up only to eat the pizza. lol. went to find tom at Pump Room after. He was darn high. Jer came a little after us. He was worse. apparently, they get VERY happy when high. =.=

i was struggling to keep awake while waiting for tom to off work. he was supposed to finish work at 530am, but due to nye, he only got to finish at 630am. there were alot of fights there, esp Lunar. all those teens. *rolleyes*

gerrick (i think its spelled this way) and tommy boy!

tom, joy and jer. its obvious who was the sober one huh..

gary and jer went to other places before coming back to find us. jer was the real busy one. he kept disappearing, going to different places to meet up with friends. let's see, it was marina to boat quay to clarke quay (lunar, attica, pump room etc).. busy busy boy.

jer, me and gary. i looked very sleepy by then. =X

anyway, i kept awake till 530am and gave up. went home with boy and zzz at 7.. what a night! its been a long time since i had such late night man! only pity was not being able to dance (as all of us had the urge. lol.).. well, it was too exp, considering there isn't any booze included! =.=

the next day was spent zzz and a movie at vivocity. simple. i'm always surprised at my outlook, the way i dress up affect my whole look. lol. those who had gone out with me a few times would know. =X

its a new year. time really flies. so much thoughts when i think back the past one year. so much.

well, shall leave it to the next entry!

may the new year be a great start for all of you! =)