loving one person and being in love with one is different.

you can always love a person, but that doesn't mean you are in love with that person.

make sense?

i certainly think so.

sometimes, you have hurt each other so much that there is no longer any possiblity of being together anymore. no longer suitable for each other. even in such situation, there is still love. you will still love that person, but you are no longer in love with him/her.

you still care, you still hurt at times, but you no longer want to be with that person, not gonna get into a situation where hurt is the only way out.

you look at that person, you know you love him. but not that kind of passionate love. you will always love him/her even if you don't see each other anymore.

you just want the other party to be happy.

that is what i mean by loving the person, but not in love with that person.

in everyone's life, there will be one or two such persons. does it make one's life more pitiful or more beautiful?

to have a part of your heart belonging to a person that u were once so in love with, is that torturing yourself or embedding memories for yourself?

will that be cruel to another party if you still love him/her yet not in love with him/her?

or will it be a blessing?