credits to: Joanna Huiting :D

Angela あやか 哇! 很準耶!

Angela 已參加 看看你是怎樣的一個人？（準） 測驗，結果是 4.生氣

1.不是跟你很熟的人覺得你是......一個很會關心別人的人，很容易發現身邊有人不開心，不會很容易講錯東西或話題。
2.跟你很熟的人覺得你是......可以跟你講道理，黑白之間分辨得很清楚。
3.你想要別人覺得你是......很聰明，不過又不會驕傲的人。
4.你最希望你的情人是......智慧很重要，可以管得到你的人，而且要講道理。
5.其實真實的你是......直接的人，很多時候因為這樣的性格跟別人不合，希望有多一點人可以了解你，特別是你喜歡的人。

快來作個屬於自己的心理測驗! | 參加此測驗

just did this quiz in fb.. true..

it says..

1. people who don't know me well thinks i am ........ a very caring person, has the ability to sense if another person is unhappy, and doesn't easily say the wrong word or topic.

2. people who knows me well thinks i am ........ a person whom they can talk reason to, who draw a very clear line between right and wrong, black and white.

3. i hope people will think that i am ....... a smart but ain't proud person.

4. i wish that my lover is ........ of high intelligence, can control me but reasonable.

5. actually, i am ......... a straight forward and frank person, alot of times, i can't mix well with other people due to my character, hopes more people can understand me a little better, especially the one i like.


hmmmm.. its really true.. go try it.. =)

Chatting with a fren and she said this:

P says (6:56 PM):
gettings guys is like buying fruits..
P says (6:56 PM):
outside nice nice if inside rotten cannot refund

what a great analogy..

when i was younger, i yearned to be part of a group.. big group.. wanted to be invited to activities etc..

but as i grow older.. i'd rather go out individually with the people i called friends than to waste my time faking my smiles at people i didn't like in a group..

don't get me wrong.. i don't despise or dislike going out in a group.. but i wont crave for it.. neither would i be affected if i am not being invited..



in a big group of friends, let's say 10-20, can you really say that this is a group of friends who are true to one another? that all are really good friends and such?

most prob not..



in a group of less than 5, yea.. there will be true or real deep bond.. but more than that? its hard..

in a big group like this, there's bound to be small cliques.. and friction and well.. displeasure..

its only a matter of time where a group like this will crack and split into small groups.. jus like Soviet Union (USSR)..



Up till now.. i have never seen a group of friends (more than 5 "members") remain the same group..

esp friends since young.. pri? sec? jc?

they usually split up due to more n more conflicts.. seeing true colors of one another etc..

smart ones keep quiet and fade away..

not-so-smart ones will stay in there, trying to keep everything together.. not accepting that things aren't the same anymore..

(just like in a relationship yea?)



i think its better that you are remembered as an individual and they meet up with you separately than to be remembered as a group member to be asked along for group outings only.. where's there only fun..


what do you think?

(1) 当一个孤独的男孩经常对你厣厣一笑时,他已经喜欢上你了

　　
(2) 每次和你在一起的时候,他会很沉默,明明牵着你的手,却一会看天一会看云,你会认为他不喜欢你,错了,此时他眼里只有你,只是他习惯了一个人的感觉.
　　

(3) 当你在也受不住沉默的时候,你提出分手.他没有忧郁一刻便答应了,你认为他是真的不爱你,错了,他只要幸福快乐,满足你所有欲望,所以宁可忍痛退出.
　　

(4) 他答应以后,便故作一点也不在乎的,漫无经心的走掉了,但是你永远也不会知道他心里是多么难过,也许这是他真的知道世界上有一种感觉叫欲哭无泪.
　　

(5) 分手后,他每次走过你身边,都会显得更无所谓,但是你不会知道,当你转身只后,他会静静望着你的背影偷偷留泪.


(6) 就在你终于知道他是多么爱你并且你也仍爱着他的情况下,你去他的廎室找他,推开门,他正在椅在床上默默叹气,你走进她他,他却顾也不顾的一把把你抱住,你笑了,这时却觉得衣襟湿湿的,你永远也不会知道,你的这个笑容,是他用多少不绵的泪夜换来的.

"if holding on is too tough, maybe its time to let go.."

an advice i tell my friends when they do not know if they should let go or hold on..

but more often than not, they choose to hold on even when it hurts so bad.. cos when you hold on, you can still hope..

by letting go, you are accepting the reality that its the end..

and that is hard..

facing and accepting the reality is really hard..

a part of us, humans, like to escape and refuse to accept the reality..

why should we when we can keep holding on and having a glint of hope?

true..

but only by facing the reality can one move on.. and be stronger..

ever thought of that?

i did.

"what doesn't kill you make you stronger.."

there's a reason why there's such a saying..



having said that, who had ever been so logical?

especially when it comes to matters of heart?

i didn't.


how about you?

"When one is in love,

one always begins by deceiving one's self,

and one always ends by deceiving others.

That is what the world calls a romance."

~Oscar Wilde

so cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ^^