a rs should be something you get to be happier than you are now, not to make you any sadder than you already are.

i always believe in a rs, there should be more laughters than tears, more happiness than sadness.

yet, i keep seeing friends getting into a rs only to make them worse than before. more stressful, more worries, more tears, more anger, more problems, more of everything except happiness and peace.

if there is more sadness than happiness in the rs you are in, you should start thinking and re-evaluate. is this what you want? is this what you deserve?

d0esn't matter whose fault it is, if a rs isn't making the parties involved happy (more than unhappy), then this rs isn't healthy.

unless of cos, you love unhappiness, you need to be unhappy to survive, this isnt a rs you should be in.

i remember my mum saying this to me, though my life sucks, at least i have a very good bf who makes my life beautiful when its not.

that is very true.

when u meet obstacles at work or school or anywhere, you would want to find your partner to cheer you up. you would want to have a shoulder to lean on, to relax. not to make your day worse than it already is.

there is no such thing as one cannot live without another, cos at the end of the day, everyone is alone. even if you get married, you are alone. one will die eventually. since thats the case, why not make the short life a better time to live in?

why make it so miserable? no one dies cos he/she is single. not for normal (thinking) people.

but i still see friends getting attached all the time, for all the wrong reasons and wrong people.

is this world changing so much that being single is a disgraceful status? is loneliness so specific that only a partner can fill it?

being single isn't wrong, being alone won't kill, but getting into a wrong/unhealthy rs may kill you eventually..........