i always say, "its ok to be stupid; don't prove it".. yet, i keep seeing people proving themselves just that..

esp these days and its the boys again. **

i do not understand why guys are like that.. are they born that way or what?

you are interested in a girl and went to get to know her.

then you will start insisting that you send her home, buy lunch for her, flowers etc, always in situation where she cant jus scream at you for doing such things (e.g. workplace, school etc)..

then one day, you are emo and started accusing her of things..

saying she just like guys to do this to her, to let guys buy things for her etc when right from the start, you are the one insisting on doing such things, knowing very well she has other suitors or that she doesn't want to be in any rs at the moment.

she can't reject you as you never mention you wanna woo her.. you just like treating her well..

or worse, you had mentioned you are interested in her and she had said she's not interested.

so after your tantrum, you calmed down and expect her to be ok too.. and to talk to you again as if nothing has happened.

after a few days, u got emo again and started saying u shall not contact her anymore blah blah blah..

if she doesn't reply, u will go on smsing her or call her to keep talking when you said you will not contact her anymore.. **

the the most childish thing is to accuse someone and then had nothing to prove it..

trying to act cool only to show everyone else how childish you were..

sending "wrong" sms to test the person's reaction..

how lame can one get?! **

proving yourself stupid is enough, yet i've seen people proving themselves stupider than they originally were!!

i believe this happened to alot of people.. esp on girls..

those boys just expect you to fall head over heels for them just cos they said they were interested in you and they were not bad looking (oh, some not good looking like to do that too!)..

when they realise you really ain't interested in them, they start accusing you, ruining your reputation to show they were the one who did not want to accept you and not the other way round..

saying words like, "i can get any girl i want" or "i say what i want to say, not what you want to hear" or, "i am not blowing my top over you, its not worth it.." **

anyway, the 2nd line is darn stupid.. they can say what they wanna say, yet they expect you to say things they wanna hear??

come on.. how childish can one get? its not the 17-18yr old guys who like to do such things, but usually those who are like mid 20s to late 20s who loveeee to do such stupid things..

as if they being interested in you is the most important thing on Earth, you shouldn't worry about other things such as your bills, your job, your living expenses but them!

can't stand it.

is it the ego acting? or too much testerone makes a guy stupid? **

i am not saying that girls won't do that (as i have seen some very ridiculous doing too) but there are less. and usually when they do that, they only manage to make themselves look cheap.

anyway, this is only one type of things guys love to do to prove themselves stupid.

another kind will be getting you to feel for them by telling you they are interested in you and then try to play hard to get.

then when you give up, they will come running to you again.

but you have already given up and chose another! **

so what do they do?

they took on the role of victim and so, you are the bad guy again, for hurting this poor chap who is soooooo interested in you all these while (which is bullshit of cos!).. **

these days, i have seeen so much of such things that i am turned off..

this 2nd type of guy like to claim they are busy but always have time for their friends..

they have time to shit (literally shittting!!) but no time to sms..

got time to drink themselves drunk, but no time to reply your sms/msn..

they happy, they talk alot to you, saying sweet things..

not happy, they give one word answer or worse, no reply at all.. **

then you get fed up and stop having hopes.

they sensed that they are losing you again, and start being Mr. Sweet.. no more Mr. Cool..

they thought by showing they have choices will make the girls wanna hold them even tighter, but they always forget that the girls have choices too!

and usually far more than than the guy and much better too!

always no time to settle things, always like to play mind games..

what is the world becoming to?

i thought it should be girls who like to play mind games, hinting here and there?

when did guys start having so much estrogen?

will they start growing breasts too? **

if you were to confront them, they will say they have no time to settle this but will find time soon..

yet, waiting and waiting and waiting and the day never comes..

and then, the whole cycle repeats..

stupid rite?? **

if you are really interested in a person and know very well that its is being reciprocated, then stop being Mr. Cool! Do something!

its childish to act cool when all you have succeeded in doing is proving yourself stupid and losing such a girl that you actually are very interested in..

whose losses?

of cos, its the guy.. duh................................... **

boys boys boys, grow up and be a man!!


and oh, a small note for all of you.. =)

one should learn to let go of the past and embrace the future.. thinking of the past doesnt make things better.

and its the past that makes the present and in turn, create the future..

without mistakes, one cannot learn..

so if this is someone you really like, stop harping on the past mistakes and start making a better future..