Tuesday, December 04, 2012

To love or be loved?

In a relationship, both should be happy. A wise man once said, to love is miserable, be loved is happiness. How true is that? We always advise our friends to be with the one who loves them, who is "good", the "better person", don't be with the "bad guy", the "arsehole".

Truth is who are we to judge? Love is blind and doesn't matter if the person is good or bad, treats you well, love you more or less. If your heart were to fall for him/her, you will fall. We always took eyes at friends who break the "better person"'s heart and choose to be with the "arsehole" but when such situation happens to us, how sure are we that we will choose the "better person" and not the "arsehole"?

No matter how bad a person is, there must be some good in him/her that attract people and vice versa. Do you follow your heart or mind? Is love emotional or logical? I'm sure you have your answer.

Two people in love, only they themselves see the truest form of each other an know best why they love each other. We can't see doesn't mean they don't exist.

So next time, before you start rolling your eyes, think about it. Are you that logical in love? If yes, are you sure you are in love?

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